When it comes to understanding mortgage payments and affordability, it’s easy to get lost in a maze of percentages, ratios, and financial jargon.

Most explanations out there feel like they’re written for accountants rather than real people looking to buy a home. And let’s face it, most people hate math.

So we’re going to break this down in simple terms – the same way we explain it to clients across Chicago every day when they’re trying to figure out how much house they can comfortably afford. There’s going to be a little bit of math, but it’ll be easy to follow, we promise.

It’s important to know that understanding how much you should spend on your monthly mortgage payment isn’t just about what lenders will approve.

It’s about finding a number that lets you enjoy homeownership without stressing out about your bills every month.

Through our years of experience helping Chicago homebuyers, we’ve found that the happiest homeowners are those who find the right balance between their dream home and their financial comfort. Are you ready to break down what that really means for you? Let’s go!

Understanding The Mortgage Jigsaw Puzzle

The easiest way to approach this is to think of your mortgage payment like a piece of a larger financial puzzle. While there are several common guidelines for how much you should spend, finding your personal sweet spot takes a bit more thought than just following a simple rule.

The 4 Key Numbers You Should Know

1. The Standard Guideline – 28% Of Your Income

This one is easy to remember. It’s a traditional approach that suggests keeping your monthly mortgage payment (including taxes and insurance) to 28% of your gross monthly income. Let’s do a quick example: If you’re making $100,000 a year, about $8,333 monthly before taxes, you’d want to keep your total monthly mortgage payment under $2,333.

$100,000 / 12 months = $8,333
$8,333 x 28% = $2,333 per month is your limit.

But there’s a more important number you need to understand.

2. The 36% Rule – Your Complete Debt Picture

While your mortgage might be your biggest monthly payment, it’s not the only one coming out of your bank account. The 36% rule looks at all your debt payments compared to your income. This means your mortgage payment PLUS all your other debts (car loans, student loans, credit cards, etc.) should stay under 36% of your gross monthly income.

Let’s go back to the example of making $100,000, which works out to $8,333 monthly.

$8,333 x 36% = $3,000 monthly debt limit

Now here’s how you make smart financial plans. If you have:

  • Car payment: $400
  • Student loans: $300
  • Credit cards: $200
  • Total debts: $900

This means you should keep your mortgage payment under $2,100 ($3,000 – $900) to stay within healthy financial limits.

3. The Conservative Approach – 25% of Take-Home Pay

While the above guidelines use your gross income, many financial experts recommend looking at what you take home after taxes. This is a more realistic picture of your financial situation. Keeping your mortgage payment to 25% of your after-tax income will give you more financial flexibility.

Again, using our $100,000 salary example:

$100,000 taxed at roughly 25% = $75,000
$75,000 / 12 months = $6,250 monthly take-home income
$6,250 x 25% = $1,562 available for your mortgage payment

4. The Maximum Stretch – 43% DTI

DTI means debt-to-income, and it simply means how much debt you carry versus how much money you make. While some lenders will approve you for a total debt-to-income ratio of up to 43%, we’ve seen this create stress for homebuyers. So think of this as an absolute ceiling, not a target.

Understanding Your True Monthly Payment

Let’s break down what actually makes up your monthly payment using a real example. It’s a bit more math, but it’s important to know.

Imagine you want to buy a home for $400,000 and you have 20% saved as a down payment. Here’s what we’re going to work with:

Purchase Price: $400,000
Down Payment: $80,000

This means you’ll need to borrow $320,000 from a lender. Let’s say the lender gives you a loan for that money and charges you 6% interest with a 30-year term.


Loan Amount: $320,000
Interest Rate: 6%
Term: 30 years

Your monthly costs would include:

Principal & Interest: $1,919
Property Taxes (estimated): $500
Insurance (estimated): $150
Total Monthly Payment: $2,569

Okay, we hope that was simple enough. Now we’re going to look at how we figure out the best approach for you depending on your needs.

Choosing The Right Approach For Your Situation

Different financial situations call for different approaches to mortgage affordability. Here’s how to think about it based on your circumstances.

First-Time Home Buyers

If you’re new to homeownership, we typically recommend starting with the conservative 25% of take-home pay rule. Why? Because new homeowners often get surprised with expenses they haven’t considered:

  • Higher utility bills than when renting
  • Regular maintenance costs
  • New furniture and decorating
  • HOA fees in many Chicago neighborhoods
  • The need for an emergency repair fund

Move-Up Buyers

If you’ve owned before, you might comfortably handle the standard 28% rule because:

  • You understand true homeownership costs
  • You’ve likely built some equity already
  • You’re familiar with maintenance expenses
  • You probably have established emergency savings

High-Income Earners

Even with substantial income, maxing out your housing budget is a quick way to start swimming in debt. Consider whether a larger monthly mortgage payment aligns with other goals like:

  • Investment opportunities
  • Travel and lifestyle preferences
  • Early retirement plans
  • Children’s education savings

Hidden Costs To Consider Beyond Your Monthly Payment

If you want to be a smart homebuyer, you’ll want to plan for things in addition to just your mortgage payment.

The Emergency Fund

Before buying, try to save 3-6 months of expenses. On a $2,569 monthly mortgage payment, that means having between $7,800 – $15,500 set aside for housing expenses, plus additional savings for other living costs.

Annual Maintenance Budget

Plan for 1-2% of your home’s value in yearly maintenance. That means on a $400,000 home, you should budget between $4,000 – $8,000.

Property Tax Increases

Don’t forget that Chicago property taxes can change significantly once they’re assessed every 3 years. You’ll want to budget for potential increases, especially in rapidly developing neighborhoods.

Insurance Adjustments

Home insurance premiums often increase yearly, so factor in roughly 2-5% for an annual increase in fees.

Making Your Financial Decision

Let’s put this all together so you can easily decide on your ideal mortgage payment.

1. Calculate Multiple Scenarios

  • Run the numbers using both gross and take-home pay guidelines
  • Factor in all current debts
  • Consider upcoming changes in income or expenses

2. Test Drive Your Payment

Before buying, try living with your projected mortgage payment:

  • Set aside the difference between your current housing payment and project mortgage
  • Include estimated maintenance costs
  • Do this for 3 months to see how it feels

3. Consider Future Changes

Think about how life changes might impact your comfort with the payment:

  • Career changes
  • Starting a family
  • Future education costs
  • Aging parents

4. Location Factors

Different Chicago neighborhoods come with varying costs:

  • Property tax rates differ significantly
  • Some areas have higher insurance costs
  • HOA fees vary widely
  • Maintenance costs can differ based on property type and age

The Bottom Line

The right mortgage payment isn’t ever about stretching to the maximum you can qualify for. It’s about finding a comfortable balance that lets you enjoy both your home and your life.

Whether you’re looking at a vintage walkup in Lincoln Park, a modern condo in River North, or a single-family home in Logan Square, the perfect house is one that fits both your lifestyle and your financial comfort zone.

Remember, being house-rich but cash-poor isn’t a path to happy ownership. The goal is to find a home you love while maintaining the financial flexibility to enjoy everything life offers, from Chicago’s amazing restaurants to saving for your future dreams.

Want to explore how these numbers apply to your specific situation? Give us a shout, and we’ll be happy to help you crunch the numbers and find your perfect balance between home and affordability.